Friday, March 20, 2009

Important Realizations that My Quest for Love has Taught Me

We often launch ourselves into the world of meaningless search for love seemingly unaware of the tremendous weight of pain we are opening ourselves into.


The quest for the deeper meaning of love has been the focal point of what we do. We create standards of how a love should be and gets hurt when it does not work the way we want it to be.

We look for the best man or woman with the decisive factors we thought are best for us and would give us that sense of pride we finally found THE ONE.

We define a dream love with our perception that it is like a fairy tale we thought it to be and of course with our knight in shining armour coming to the rescue and freeing us from our malady.

Conversely, I never had any inclination of what was love before. Then love whispered and I have realized…

Love is strange. It caresses your heart with that inexplicable feeling of bliss but also causes pain beyond words could express.

Love is a sweet blend of waving dreams, calming fears, and sharing secrets.

Love is not about having the best man or woman but of acceptance for who they are.

Love is the best lesson in life because it teaches your heart.

Love is boundless. It does not know the beginning nor the ending.

Love is enduring.

Love is an invisible connection of hearts and meeting of minds.

LOVE is indefinable. It is a touch of magic into the world of realities.

LOVE is a dance with silent music and invisible steps.

LOVE is a bond only the two of you understand.

LOVE is a sweet entrapment.


Most of all, I have realized that a dream relationship is a selfless act of love between two people. It does not matter whether you are together or not but what’s important is the realization that love is powerful enough to cross bridges of distance and to fade away the pain of longing.

The paradox of love; only the hearts could feel and only the hearts could hear when it whispers.


19 comments:

  1. I am blessed and thankful I found my love young, and now we have been together for eleven years and have two beautiful kids. The search for love can be strange, odd and crazy I wish everyone the best of luck during that journey.

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  2. Hoang Vi FessendenMarch 19, 2019

    This is interesting, I think everyone has a different way of finding love. Goodluck on your journey!

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  3. What an interesting insight. Every one has its own perfect time in finding their love and most of the time, you don't really expect that to happen. Searching for love could be unpredictable, but if you wait for the right time, it is gonna be worth it!

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  4. That's deep. I love that you recognize that love has to be between two people who meet one a others needs

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  5. That's a deep learning about love. I love reading your article as I can relate to it.

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  6. lovely post ,i appreciated a lot, mostly when you say "LOVE is a dance with silent music and invisible steps" a lot of fiction

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  7. sweet words! it is like reading a poem. very beautiful. there is nothing more beautiful in the world than love. and it comes in so many forms. the strongest unwavering love i have ever felt in my life is when I became a mother. The love for my son is like nothing else in this world.

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  8. I love this post because it’s so true. I’m someone who just loves to be in love. The pain it may cause seems so worth it to me.

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  9. OMYYGGG!! I love this! As a single person and waiting for "the one" This quote totally hits me "Love is a sweet blend of waving dreams, calming fears, and sharing secrets." I have a lot of secrets when it comes about love because I have fears to boost my feelings but I'am still hoping that the right man will find me someday.

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  10. Everything is true about what is said here. The older you get, the more clearer is the meaning of love and what it truly represents.

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  11. Love is the most beautiful and fulfilling feeling when you discover it

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  12. I loved this! And I really love love I say that all the time! I agree love is the best lesson in life!

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  13. love have deeper definition and harder to defined when you finally meet and have it. Its undefinable. It is boundless.

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  14. Very nice and beautifully written. I learned a lot from this topic. There is nothing like Love and we ought to respect it.

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  15. Love is accepting one another.. you have brought forth some very beautiful points.. Great article

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  16. Deep information on love. Love is everything.

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  18. Love is accepting each other’s strengths and weaknesses. Very well written

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  19. Love is truly what two hearts whisper !!! It is beyond boundaries. Nice article !!

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